At noon on this national day of mourning and remembrance, we again held a service at the church.

  We shared and sang and grieved together.  Here are some of the readings I offered. 

 

Peace to us all,

 

Mark  (minister@ucdsm.org)

 

 

 

“The Journey” (excerpt)  by Lillian Smith

 

“Without words, it comes.  And suddenly, sharply, one is aware of being separated from every person on one’s earth and every object, and from the beginning of things and from the future and even a little, from one’s self.  A moment before one was happily playing; the world was round and friendly.  Now at one’s feet there are chasms that had been invisible until this moment.  And one knows, and never remembers how it was learned, that there will always be chasms, and across chasms will always be those one loves.”

 

 

 

“The Wind, One Brilliant Day”  by Antonio Machado

 

The wind, one brilliant day, called

To my soul with an odor of jasmine.

 

“In return for the odor of jasmine,

I’d like all the odor of your roses.”

 

“I have no roses; all the flowers

in my garden are dead.”

 

“Well then, I’ll take the withered petals

and the yellow leaves and the waters of the fountain.”

 

The wind left.  And I wept.  And I said to myself:

“What have you done with the garden that was entrusted

to you?”

 

 

“Testimony”  by Jane Flanders

 

This is how death

Came to the old tree:

In a cold bolt, a single

Thrust from a cloud,

In tearing away of bark

And limbs, a piercing

Of much that was necessary.

 

We had no choice then

But to cut it down—a pine

Of great height, that knew much

About weather and small life.

It had been here longer than any of us.  And now

There is a hole in the sky.

 

 

“All Souls”  by May Sarton

 

Did someone say that there would be an end,

And end, Oh, an end, to love and mourning?

The cold bleak voices of the early morning

When all the birds are dumb and in dark November—

Remember and forget, forget, remember.

 

After the false night, warm true voices, wake!

Voice of the dead that touches the cold living,

Through the pale sunlight once more gravely speak.

Tell me again, while the last leaves are falling:

“Dear child, what has been once so interwoven

Cannot be raveled, nor the gift ungiven.”

 

Now the dead move through all of us still glowing,

Mother and child, lover and lover mated,

Are wound and bound together and enflowing.

What has been plaited cannot be unplaited—

Only the strands grow richer with each loss

And memory makes kings and queens of us.

 

Dark into light, light into darkness, spin.

When all the birds have flown to some real haven,

We who find shelter in the warmth within,

Listen, and feel new-cherished, new forgiven,

As the lost human voices speak through us and blend

Our complex love, our mourning without end.

 

 

“Grief” by Gaius Valerius Catullus

 

Grief reached across the world to get me,

Sadness carries me across seas and countries

To your grave, my brother,

 

To offer the only gift I still can give you—

Words you will not hear.

 

Fortune has taken you from me.  You.

No reason, nothing fair.

I didn’t deserve losing you.

 

Now, in the silence since,

As is the ancient custom of our people,

I say the mourner’s prayer,

Do the final kindness.

 

Accept and understand it, brother.

My head aches from crying.

Forever, goodbye.

 

 

“Prayer for America and the World”
Rev. Cliff Reed, minister, Unitarian Meeting House, Ipswich, England

“Do not allow your hatred to turn you away from justice.”
-  The Qur'an, sura 5.

This is not time for words, yet we must speak  -
and we must speak of shock and disbelief and grief unconsolable.
How could it be ?
These scenes of ruin and terror, fire and dust  -
the world's familiar things turned into hell ?

This is not one tragedy, but thousands  -
surging out like falling rubble to engulf the lives of thousands more with death and fear and desperate anger.

Who could do such things ? What abdication of humanity, what profundity of hatred, what godless satanic bitterness
could so possess a human mind and drive it to such evil ?
This we ask in our confusion.

And so we pray  -
not sure in faith, not sure to whom we pray, or why
but in confusion.

We pray for the injured and the dead,
       not in their thousands but one by one  -
the office-worker starting her day,
the traveler on a plane,
the firefighter rushing to save lives...
we pray for their recovery or their eternal rest.

We pray that wisdom will rule the reaction, that pain will not give way to blind vengeance, that the innocent will not suffer with the guilty.

We give thanks for the human response to untold suffering,
the compassion, the generosity, the gifts of life-blood. We pray that, out of evil and disaster, the divine might work some good unhoped for.

We pray that a consciousness of common humanity may touch the hearts of those who, in their own pain, might celebrate this wickedness.

We pray that those who have shown such contempt for ordinary people and their special, sacred lives may come to realize the enormity of their crime and the falsehood of the malice that perverts their souls.

And should they repent - from the very core of their being - for what they have done, grant us, O compassionate and merciful One, the grace to forgive - for we will need it.
Amen.