October 2018


Dear Families 

Rev. Susan Frederick-Gray, UUA President, has issued a statement about how our faith believes survivors!  Read it here:

https://sidewithlove.org/ourstories/2018/9/26/our-faith-believes-survivors

and

In light of recent news, I thought it would be important to share this information about talking with your children about consent.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/good-men-project/this-is-how-you-teach-kids-about-consent_b_10360296.html

Sincerely, with gratitude,

Tracy Beck, Director of Religious Education
dre@ucdsm.org

Special thanks to Chelsea Hayes for teaching families and teachers about using the Love and Logic method at the Family and Teacher Training in early September.

Dates of Importance

Wednesday, October 3

  • Wednesday Night Programming

Sunday, October 7

  • Faith Formation Classes, 9:15 and 11 am
  • High School Youth Group, 6-8 pm

Wednesday, October 10

  • Wednesday Night Programming (No OWL for 7th grade)

Sunday, October 14

  • Faith Formation Classes, 9:15 and 11 am
  • High School Youth Group, 6-8 pm

Wednesday, October 17

  • Wednesday Night Programming

Friday, October 19 – Sunday, October 21

  • Coming of Age Fall Retreat at Camp Hantesa

Sunday, October 21

  • Children’s Chapel (Pre-K – Gr 8), 9:15 am in Room 111; Faith Formation classes (Pre-K – Gr 5), 11 am
  • High School Youth Group, 6-8 pm

Wednesday, October 24

  • Wednesday Night Programming

Sunday, October 28

  • Service for All Ages – 9:15 and 11 am – No Faith Formation Classes
  • High School Youth Group, 6-8 pm

Wednesday, October 31

  • Wednesday Night Programming

What does it Mean to be a Family of Sanctuary?

These resources support families as you try to live out and engage Soul Matters themes with your children.

Video

TED talk: What we are missing in the debate about immigration
https://www.ted.com/talks/duarte_geraldino_what_we_re_missing_in_the_debate_about_immigration
“Between 2008 and 2016, the United States deported more than three million people. What happens to those left behind? Journalist Duarte Geraldino picks up the story of deportation where the state leaves off. Learn more about the wider impact of forced removal as Geraldino explains how the sudden absence of a mother, a local business owner or a high school student ripples outward and wreaks havoc on the relationships that hold our communities together.” – TED A background for why UU Churches consider offering sanctuary. We need to look at the bigger picture.

 

Books

Inspired Traveler’s Guide Spiritual Places
by Sarah Baxter (Author), Zanna Goldhawk (Illustrator), Harry Goldhawk (Illustrator)
https://www.amazon.com/Inspired-Travellers-Guide-Spiritual-Places/dp/1781317429/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1531146074&sr=8-1&keywords=Inspired+Traveller%27s+Guide+Spiritual+Places
“Travel journalist Sarah Baxter has carefully curated a selection of the 25 most spiritual destinations from around the world – places that hold the promise of rare and profound experiences, whether areas of natural beauty imbued with spiritual significance or sites constructed for worship.” – Amazon

Spiritual Places: The World’s Most Sacred Sites
by Antony Mason (Author)
https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Places-Worlds-Sacred-Sites/dp/1782068546/ref=pd_sbs_14_5?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=1782068546&pd_rd_r=5d686ff7-8383-11e8-b77d-4ffb343ca287&pd_rd_w=0pOaO&pd_rd_wg=zoLjs&pf_rd_i=desktop-dp-sims&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_p=5825442648805390339&pf_rd_r=4V6PGKP9Q86MM9JRJ1S1&pf_rd_s=desktop-dp-sims&pf_rd_t=40701&psc=1&refRID=4V6PGKP9Q86MM9JRJ1S1&dpID=61jzNOxfCXL&preST=_SX218_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&dpSrc=detail
“Spiritual Places combines awe-inspiring photography and memorable narrative to tell the stories of the holiest temples and ancient ruins, the most hallowed churches, and the places of ancient power. Each location has been handpicked for its breathtaking scenery and its uniquely humbling qualities. Spanning every continent on the planet—from the Mayan pyramids of Chichen Itza in Mexico, through the Carnac stones in France, and on to the idyllic ancient temples of Angkor Wat in Cambodia—acclaimed travel writer Antony Mason has carefully selected the most uplifting places the world has to offer.

Encompassing belief systems past and present—via the Temple of Heaven in Beijing, the Hagia Sophia in Istanbul, and Uluru in Australia—this collection of stunning images, enlightening text, and essential travel tips will inspire and inform armchair aficionados and seasoned travelers alike.” – Amazon

 

Articles

10 Commandments for talking to your kids about religion – PBS
https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/10-commandments-talking-kids-religion
One of the lenses for the theme of sanctuary is as a place of worship. What are secular and humanist parents to do when sanctuary has overtones of Christianity?

What Makes a Place Sacred?
https://www.stphilipscathedral.org/Sermons/what-makes-a-place-sacred/
“Sacred places are where we meet something beyond ourselves. They are not always conventionally religious places…” – from the article

UU Prayers and Meditations
From Tapestry of Faith, Signs of Our Faith, Seeking Knowledge
https://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/signs/session4/287658.shtml

 

Movies

The Hunchback of Notre Dame – Disney, G (recommended for 8+)
https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/the-hunchback-of-notre-dame-1996
“Disney’s recreation of Victor Hugo’s novel is rich in visual and musical sensation. But deeper beneath the rich production lie questions about normalcy, how sanctuary confines us as well as protects us, and what punishment is.” – Common Sense Media Review
Here’s another review: https://www.bustle.com/articles/167960-19-things-i-noticed-rewatching-the-hunchback-of-notre-dame-as-an-adult
Be aware that this movie is not appropriate for young children.

The Urban Elephant: Shirley’s Story (13 min)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0Z_vRYQ_Sg
From ArgoFilm’s “The Urban Elephant” comes the touching story of Shirley and her keeper, Solomon James. Trapped in a man-made world, Shirley’s life at the Louisiana Purchase Zoo was a lonely one, bereft of the company of other elephants. Follow Shirley and Solomon through a life of captivity to release in the Tennessee Elephant Sanctuary. This two-time Emmy Award winning film was produced for PBS’s Nature Series.

The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh
https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/the-many-adventures-of-winnie-the-pooh
“THE MANY ADVENTURES OF WINNIE THE POOH brings to life several chapters of A.A. Milne’s The House at Pooh Corner that were turned into Disney shorts in the 1960s and ’70s. The film opens with a scene from Christopher Robin’s non-animated bedroom [a sanctuary!] where we see the stuffed animals that come alive in the animated tales. As the narrator introduces a book, viewers slip into the story as the characters come alive on the page. The first chapter details Pooh’s attempt to steal honey from a tree and his subsequent escape from a swarm of bees. Later he eats all Rabbit’s honey and gets stuck in the doorway where he must stay until he slims down and can be pushed out of the narrow hole [when a safe place becomes a stuck place]. In later chapters, Rabbit tries to teach Tigger a lesson to get him to stop pouncing on everyone but ends up getting lost in the Hundred Acre Wood. Tigger and Roo end up atop a tree and unable to get down until their friends help rescue them.”  – Common Sense Media

PBS – Cathedral- David Macauley (1 hr.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZpOd2pHiI0
“Author David Macaulay hosts CATHEDRAL, based on his award-winning book. Using a combination of spectacular location sequences and cinema-quality animation, the program surveys France’s most famous churches. Travel back to 1214 to explore the design of Notre Dame de Beaulieu, a representative Gothic cathedral. The program tells period tales revealing fascinating stories of life and death, faith and despair, prosperity, and intrigue.” – YouTube

BBC – How to Build a Cathedral (1 hr.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TrAoqIsbD9M