High Desire / Low Desire?

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Rev. Mark Stringer;
Celebrant: Jon Royal.

In all relationships, romantic and otherwise, there tend to be differences in desire between the partners. Depending on the topic at hand, one partner may be considered “high desire” and the other partner, comparatively speaking, “low desire”. How might we best navigate these differences toward differentiation and mutual respect rather than toward alienation and victimhood?