The Problem with ‘Should’

As we deepen our exploration of resilience, what role do our expectations play in our ability to adapt and respond to life’s challenges?
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Welcome to the First Unitarian Church of Des Moines! We’re glad you’ve found us and hope you find a church home with us.
At First Unitarian, we’re brave, curious, and compassionate thinkers and doers. We’re people of many beliefs and backgrounds – people with a religious background and people with none; people who believe in a God and people who don’t, and people who simply let the mystery be. And while we represent a diversity of faith, ethnicity, history and spirituality, we agree that we want to do good work in the world.
So we welcome you – your whole self, with all your truths and your doubts, your worries and your hopes. Let us support you on your faith journey.

As we deepen our exploration of resilience, what role do our expectations play in our ability to adapt and respond to life’s challenges?
Click here for the Order of Service (updates every Friday afternoon)
Hospitality Open House
February 7, 2026 9:30 am - 11:30 am
Kitchen, Auditorium, Griffin, Gathering Area
All new and returning hospitality team members are invited to a drop-in orientation to get familiar with our updated safety protocols and refresh practical skills on Saturday, February 7 from 9:30-11:30 a.m.
We’ll have stations set up so you can visit only the areas you want or need including:
if you have questions, send an email to hospitality@ucdsm.org.
Faith Formation Team Meeting
February 7, 2026 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm
ZOOM ONLY
UCDSM Communications is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Faith Formation Team
Time: This is a recurring meeting Meet anytime
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83997946293?pwd=KyoEQCg4EXyrrNvNN9A6raiCSXGNpC.1
Meeting ID: 839 9794 6293
Passcode: FF
(Set-Up and Take-Down) Progressive Voices Concerts - Flamy Grant
February 7, 2026 4:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Auditorium, Kitchen, Gathering Area, Griffin Hall, Room 105
Progressive Voices Concerts - Flamy Grant
February 7, 2026 7:30 pm - 9:30 pm
Auditorium, Kitchen, Gathering Area, Griffin Hall, Room 105
LISTEN: "Desire of Your Heart"
Flamy Grant is a trailblazing drag queen and singer-songwriter from Asheville, North Carolina. She has earned numerous awards for both songwriting and stage performance, including winning the 2023 Kerrville Folk Festival New Folk Songwriting Competition, winning the Audience Favorite Award at the 2025 Asheville Fringe Arts Festival, and being nominated for the 2026 International Folk Music Award for Best Album. She consistently sets stages ablaze with blistering vocals, bold looks, brilliant songwriting, and brave storytelling.
Beautifully blending her Appalachian roots with drag artistry and eclectic musical excellence, Flamy has stormed stages from Los Angeles to London, and from New York to the Netherlands. She has racked up over 1.5 million streams on digital music platforms, with her first album reaching #1 and her second album reaching #8 on various iTunes music charts. This powerhouse vocalist, intrepid songwriter, and shame-slaying drag queen serves up a therapeutic, theatrical experience that is fearless, flamboyant, and full of hearts.
Advance purchase discount tickets save you $5 off the door price and are available online at Humanitix through the day before the show or in person at the church after services on the four Sundays before each concert. Regular price tickets are also available at the door starting at 6:30 p.m. the day of the show. 6-show and 4-show season ticket packages save you even more and come with additional perks, like a reserved seating section for season ticket holders.
Individual advance-purchase tickets: $24
Individual tickets at the door: $29
Season tickets: 4 shows for $86 & 6 shows for $129
A limited number of complimentary tickets for this concert are available for those otherwise unable to afford to attend. Please speak confidentially with our minister, Steve Sieck, about how to obtain them. More information about the concert series is also available online at www.ucdsm.org/concerts. Email questions to concerts@ucdsm.org.

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